being independent!!!

BEING INDEPENDENT!!

LIFE HAS 7 STAGES..!INITIAL IS CHILDHOOD...........AND FINAL IS OLD STAGE AT WHICH MAN ACTS AS A CHILD ONLY!!..IN THIS STAGE HE NEEDS CARE,ATTENTION AND AFFECTION FROM HIS CLOSED ONES!!

BETWEEN THERE COMES A STAGE AT WHICH PERSON BECOME INDEPENDENT!
STARTS EARNING MONEY.........LIVE AT HIS OWN TERMS AND CONDITIONS!!

AT 25-26 TIME PERIOD OF STAGE.....INDEPENDENCE COMES WHEN PEOPLE STARTS EXPECTING FROM YOU TO DO SOMETHING IN LIFE LIKE EARNING MONEY,MARRIAGE MEANS THEY WANT TO SETTLE IN LIFE AT YOUR OWN..!!....

AT THIS STAGE MANY LIABILITIES!! STARTS TO SET UPON PERSON...MATURITY COMES...OR WE CAN SAY THAT PROSPECTIVE AND VISION STARTS CHANGING....OF A PERSON ABOUT LIFE!!

SO.....CONCLUSION IS THAT!! BEING INDEPENDENT IS LIKE!! A FREE BIRD WHO LEARNS HOW TO FLY IN A SKY AND FACE OTHER BIRDS ALSO!!..

INDEPENDENCE IS A BIG THING...IT CHANGE YOUR WHOLE LIFE....!!IT IS  LIKE A STORM OF FREEDOM WHICH COMES AND ALSO ATTRACT OR BRING RESPONSIBILITIES , CHAIN OF RELATIONS AND MATURITY!!!

 

LIFE IS A ADVENTURE OF LIVING!!!

ACTUALLY..LIFE IS LIKE A COCKTAIL.IT IS A MIXTURE OF ALL FLAVOURS OF EMOTIONS LIKE SADNESS,HAPPINESS,EXCITEMENT,ANXIETY,JEALOUSY..ALL THESE PECULIAR EMOTIONS.AND BECAUSE OF THIS OUR LIFE SEEMS TO BE LIKE ADVENTURE!!..

ADVENTURE IS BASICALLY TRYING SOMETHING NEW SOMETIMES THAT THING WHICH WE HAD NOT EXPECT ..!!
IT CAN BE FULLY LOADED WITH FUN,THRILL AND MANY MORE.
THAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT!!.

LIFE IS FULL OF SHADES!,DISCRETE CIRCUMSTANCES.WE WILL SUFFER IN IT THROUGH EACH PHASE OF CONDITIONS AND EMOTIONS..SO BE CALM AND HAPPILY FACE ALL THE FEARS OF YOURS@!..ACT IN THIS EACH SCENE OF ACTION ADVENTUROUS MOVIE...BRAVELY AND PASSIONATELY.

NEVER GIVE UP ON TRYING AT ANYTHING.....JUST NOT LOSE HOPE INSTANTLY JUST ENJOY EVERY SECOND OF THIS LIFE LIKE ADVENTURE AND JUST STOP WORRYING ABOUT FUTURE.....JUST BE YOURSELF!!!

INNER VOICE!!!

IN LIFE SOMETIMES A POINT COMES AT WHICH WE EVENTUALLY COME IN THE POSITION OF DILEMMA.........
AND OUR OPTIMIST MIND AND PESSISMIST MIND  START FIGHTING WITH EACH OTHER...LIFE GET MESSSED.!@#.AND WE START FINDING THE SOLUTION TO ESCAPE FROM IT BECAUSE ALREADY WE HAD LOST CONTROL FROM OUR SITUATIONS!!!


ACTUALLY EVERY INDIVIDUAL HAVE TWO TYPE OF PRESSURE..%#$
INNER PRESSURE AND OUTER PRESSURE ."PRESSURE IS A ROOT CAUSE OF SUICIDES AND WRONG STEP IN THE ONE INDIVIDUAL LIFE".
DO NOT RUN AWAY FROM YOUR PROBLEMS ,JUST WALK WITH THEM AND TRY TO OVRCOME YOUR #SHITTY PROBLEM.

BASICALLY OUR INNER PRESSURE HAVE A POWER TO TOUCH THE INFINITE LIMITS OF THE SKY. THIS PRESSURE COMES FROM OUR INNER VOICE..WHICH SOMETIMES LET US TO DO MIRACLES TO REACH TO THE SUCCESS POINT.

AND OUTER PRESSURE IS THE PRESSURE MADE BY THE SOCIETY,PRESSURE MADE BY OUR RELATIVES,COLLEAGUES.
THIS PRESSURE IS A SUCKING PRESSURE@!....WHICH GIVES US STRESS.

IN INDIA THERE IS A COMMON SCENERIO OF OUTSIDE PRESSURE.!!!#@!!
LIKE  AFTER 12 BOARDS IF ANY STUDENT WANT TO DO ENGLISH LITERTURE,AND WANT TO BECOME A WRITER BY DOING THIS COURSE...BUT DID NOT GET A PERMISSION TO DO FURTHER STUDY ON IT ...

MAX PARENTS WANT TEIR CHILD TO  BE ENGGINEER , DOCTOR , CA.
 IT IS A OUTSIDE PRESSURE...IF CHILD DO NOT WANT TO PURSUE ANY ONE OF THIS FIELD..SO DO NOT PRESSURISE  HIM...

AND AT LAST THE CONCLUSION IS THAT SUCCESS COMES FROM INNER PRESSURE NOT FROM THE OUTSIDE PRESSURE.!!

5 THINGS WHICH HAVE TO BE CHANGED ABOUT INDIAN PARENTS............

1.I AM NOT SAYING THAT THEY ARE BAD OR RESERVED..THEY ARE CARING BUT SOMETIMES THEY ARE NOT RIGHT OR AT SOME POINT THEY ARE TOO  ORTHODOX..
LIKE THEY COMPARE THEIR CHILDREN WITH OTHER ON THE BASIS OF THEIR MERITS...THEY  START PRESSURISING THEIR CHILDREN.WHICH  WILL HAVE BAD IMPACT ON THEIR CHILDREN.

2.EVERY CHILD HAS ITS OWN DESIRE,AMBITION AND PROSPECTIVE TOWARDS LIFE.SO DO NOT IMPOSE  THEIR ALL EXPECTATIONS ON THEM..JUST LET THEM DO..WHAT THEY WANT.......BECOZ LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO FULFILL DREAMS.!!!!!!!!!!

3. EACH CHILD HAS  HIS OWN PROGRESS REPORT FOR ACHIEVING SOMETHING.....!!!
BECAUSE EVERY CHILD IS NOT A FERRARI CAR ...WHICH HAVE NITROBOOSTER AND WHICH REACHED TO HIGHEST SPEED IN 5 SECONDS....JUST GIVE THEIR SPACE AND TIME.

4.DO... NOT BE TOO CONSERVATIVE !!!! ABOUT CHILDREN...JUST ALLOW THEIR WINGS TO TAKE AIR FREELY......SO THEY CAN BE INDEPENDENT@!!

5.JUST UNDERSTAND THEM...BECAUSE AT EACH AND EVERY POINT THEY ARE NOT WRONG....DO NOT CRITICISE THEM ALWAYS!!!......JUST GIVE THEM A CHANCE FOR EXPRESSING THEMSELVES..AND GIVE THE THREAD OF THEIR LIFE TO THEIR OWN HANDS!@#!!!!



 

ETERNAL BOND BETWEEN PARENTS AND CHILDREN

TODAY GENERATION IS VERY FAST IN ALL FIELDS....LIKE TAKING DECISIONS,CHOOSING DREAM DESTINATIONS.

ACTUALLY LIFE IS NOT ONLY ABOUT  FULFILLING DREAMS , IT IS ALSO ABOUT HANDLING RELATIONSHIPS......
ROLE OF PARENTS IS VERY CRUCIAL IN ONE INDIVIDUAL LIFE. PARENTS ARE LIKE GOD FOR EVERYONE.WE SHOULD NEVER LET THEM  DOWN.
THERE SHOULD BE VERY STRONG BONDING BETWEEN PARENTS AND THEIR CHILDREN.BUT TODAY GENERATION IS SOMEWHAT !!! IRRESPONSIBLE  ABOUT THEIR PARENTS.

THEY SACRIFICE THEIR LIFE ON YOU ...SO IN RETURN THEY ALSO HAVE CERTAIN EXPECTATIONS FROM YOU..BUT SOME CHILDREN JUST DO NOT TRY TO UNDERSTAND IT.

LIKE  THEY JUST WITHOUT THINKING SAY ANYTHING TO THEIR PARENTS...LIKE "YOU ARE OLD FASHIONED"..OR YOU ARE NOT ATTACHED TO TECHNOLOGY.....OR YOU ARE SOMEWHAT" ORTHODOX".

ACTUALLY  THEY ALWAYS THINK ABOUT YOU..THEY ARE ALWAYS INVOLVED IN YOU....AND THEIR LIFE IS ONLY YOU.......AND REST IS JUST A SILLY STUFF@!!!!! FOR THEM.

IT MEANS NOT THEY ARE ORTHODOX OR THEY ARE OLD FASHIONED....ONLY THEY ARE CARING ABUT YOU........THEY UNDRSTANDS YOU IN A BETTER WAY THAN ANY OTHER.

SO CONCLUSION IS THAT THERE SHOULD BE STRONG RELATIONSHIP BONDING BETWEEN PARENTS AND CHILDREN..........BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ROYES OF YOUR LIFE.DO NOT IGNORE THEM OR RUIN THEM..@!!!

Effects of Breakup

                                                         EFFECT OF BREAKUP..

Love is a great and majastic feeling..when we fall in love so at that time we are at mature stage.
If there is love ..obviously there will be some little disputes between comapnions it is natural..not a big deal..but sometimes it eventually turns into breakup and seperation

Breakups are sometimes two sided... and in some cases one sided.
When there are one sided breakups and that is not your fault... so don't be depressed just move on 

Breakups are not a big deal basically...just remember that after breakups your life is not over...!!!
When you are rejected it means not always that you are wrong ...sometimes...life wants something else from you so start focusing on yourself.
So, depressed person....divert your mind from this fussy stuff *!@ ...and give new direction to your life...

ALWAYS BE HOPEFUL!!!!!!!


LIFE IS BASICALLY A GAME ..........ACTUALLY  A MULTIPLAYER GAME .ONE CAN NOT BE INDIVIDUALLY HANDLE HIS OR HER LIFE.
MANY LIVES ARE CONNECTED TO A INDIVIDIUAL LIFE.SOMETIMES WE THINK THAT WE ARE THE ONLY KINGS AND  QUEENS OF OUR LIFE.
BUT THAT IS OUR MISCONCEPTION BASICALLY. WHEN IN LIFE WE BECAME SUCCESSFUL AND PROSPEROUS........SO SOIFMETIMES WE START THINKING THAT IF WE ARE FREE FROM ALL THE RELATIONSHIPS AND CONNECTIONS OF PEOPLE SO WE CAN FLY MUCH MORE MORE HIGHER..BUT IT IS BASICALLY NOT THE VALID POINT. RELATIONSHIPS ARE MADE BY GOD ...THEY ARE OUR INTIAL ROUTES. IF WE IGNORE THEM SO WE ARE NOTHING.WE JUST BECOME HERO TO ZERO.

SECONDLY...LIFE OFFERS MANY CHOICES AND PATHS..TO BE SUCCESSFUL .NEVER LOSE HOPE..BECAUSE LIFE IS UNPREDICTABLE....WE NEVER KNOW WHAT IS GOING TO BE HAPPEN NEXT!!!.

ACTUALLY .......OUR SUCCESS TIMING IS MISMATCHING WITH OUR DESTINY.....SO SOMETIMES WE BECOME IMPATIENT AND  WE JUST TRY TO ESCAPE OUT.

SO ALWAYS BE HOPEFUL BECAUSE DESTINY CAN BE CHANGE ANYTIME.BUT ALWAYS PREFER KARMA!!!.
ALWAYS CHASE YOUR DREAMS.....NEVER LET THEM GO.

 

5 things .which are important in a relationships.


Hey !!! I am not a relationship expert . i am just a young boy whose life has many twist and turns. i am not mingle but my observation is correct  about these new generation relationships.
so there are 5 things which i am trying  to say.........

1.each relationship not emphasis on only love...there are more 15 things which are have to be focussed . each companion should be practical enough....should understand present circumstances and problems.These small small things smoothen the realationships.

2.physical affection is not only the meaning of love. each partner should understand their feelings their problems , their prospective and opinion about each other life.it is important to take precise decisions.....and these things are important and elegant part of relationships.

3.future planning is necessary .....it is not a waste of time it"s just a investment in relationship to get the future happiness.

4.insecurities should not be there becuse they ruin the relationships in a f******* manner.
for perfect relationships trust should be atleast 90%.

5. Don"t pressurise each other in  any field or in any situation.
free each other........and do not ever sacrifice each dreams or ambitions in the fire of love or physical affection.
 

H.J QUOTES ON GIRLS

1. GIRLS  ARE SOMETIMES LIKE TYPICAL INTEGRATION PROBLEMS...WHOSE NATURE IS TYPICAL AND RESULT IS FRUSTRATION.

2. 95% GIRLS ARE SENSITIVE TO PROPOSALS BECAUSE THEY  EMPHASIS MORE ON LIFE...PROSPECTIVE AND GOALS.

3. DON`T RUN FOR GIRLS.BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT ATHLETE WHO RUNS 800 METRES TRACK OF LOVE...BE PATIENT AND CALM!!!

4.  BEWARE OF FRIENDZONE WITH GIRLS.!!!SOMETIMES IT SEEMS LIKE YOU ARE MANAGING  A NGO AND EVENTUALLY YOU TURNED OUT TO BE A SOCIAL WORKER.!@!!

5.LIFE IN NOT ALL ABOUT LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS ONLY..IF YOU ARE SINGLE SO..IT NOT MEAN THAT YOUR LIFE IS OVER..@!!.TIME WILL NOT BE  SAME ALWAYS

6.ONLY "TRUE LOVE" CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE ......REST IS A GAMEOF SILLY STUFF.
 @#$!!!

 

life realities

                                                            HJ Quotes on life

1. Life is not like a "aladdin chirag" it not offers you always what you want from it....sometimes....adjustments and compromises are must to survive.
2. Life is like a limited edition ... so don't waste a single moment also..and always hope for best and try something new..!! 
3. When you get disappointment from all sides ...so one thing is clear that life is finding something special for you...only success time is mismatching with you destiny.
4. Sometimes life is lika a fast screen play movie in which each moment is fastly passed that we forget our closed ones..!!